Welcome to a space where HEALING and EMPOWERMENT are no just ideals, but realities that YOU CAN achieve. My name is Amie, and I'm dedicated to guiding individuals through the tumultuous waters of betrayal, abuse, and divorce.

The term 'BETRAYAL TRAUMA' was hardly mainstream when I first grappled with it myself; the word 'abuse' was 'too harsh' for what I endured, so said others around me. Deeply rooted in a religious culture, I didn't see the massive abuse and trauma encircling my life until it was glaringly unavoidable.

After 18 years of marriage, the HEART-WRENCHING decision to divorce was compounded by post-separation abuse, intensifying my symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder to a point where at one point, even my parents struggled to recognize me.

Through my journey, as I began to articulate my experiences, the path to healing became evident. It was time for what I call a 'LIFE-SAVING DIVORCE' EMBRACING my worth and rediscovering trust in myself transformed me, affirming that I am, indeed, of absolute value.

This profound personal transformation drove me to support others facing similar trials. A passion and calling I feel has been given to me, and to which I wholeheartedly accept.
With my PROFESSIONAL training and certifications, including the somatic focused training in BRAINSPOTTING, I’ve had the honor of SUPPORTING hundreds in their own healing journeys. Staying or Leaving.

Whether you're navigating the complexities of trying to salvage your marriage, contemplating divorce, or UNCERTAIN about your next step, I am here to MEET YOU WHERE YOU ARE. My approach leverages effective strategies to support those striving to mend their relationships and guides those uncertain of how to move through a divorce, especially when faced with escalating betrayal and abuse.

I will help you tackle each challenge, empowering YOU to harness YOUR INNATE STRENGTH and wisdom. We move at your pace, one step at a time, in YOUR time. It took monumental support from my loved ones for me to face my reality and take steps—both forward and back—towards myself. This journey towards reclaiming my agency has been both EMPOWERING and FREEING, bringing transformative changes not only in my life but also in the lives of my children. I want the same FOR YOU!

I believe there is HOPE and HEALING for anyone who chooses it. I am eager to show you how to become the CHOOSER in your own life.

Because, YOU CAN!

Let's Get Real About Single Moms and ...


Life as a single mom is nothing short of being a superhero in my opinion!

I felt like one most of the time. I was running kids to all their activities, school, doctors, friends, and the “Hey mom I forgot I need a poster board for school tomorrow” midnight run to the store. I cooked when I was home, still got the laundry done and actually put away most days, and I have fond memories of watching the bachelorette and eating chocolate cake with my girls on the weekends.

Then comes the tidal wave of sheer exhaustion that levels me. I’d go and go until I hit the wall and sometimes that would be in the most random places. My girls thought it was funny and loved to record some of those random crashes. I still love them.

I want you to know you are not alone, I want you to know you are capable and amazing and can do this. I know, you might not believe this right now and that’s ok. I’d love to show you your superpowers and help you keep rocking single motherhood, in all your mess and dead tired crashes- you are doing it exactly as you are supposed to!

The Real Amie Woolsey

Fun Facts About Me

• I'm a HUGE baseball fan- GO REDS!

• I am the oldest child of 7

• I can touch my tongue to the tip of my nose

• If you put raspberries with anything I'll eat it

• I have a baking and pastry arts degree

• I have always loved the outdoors, fishing, backpacking, camping and in the last couple years I have learned to hunt and love it

• Scott says I snore, I think he's lying

• I love the opera

• I enjoy good sarcasm and love to laugh

• Pizza is my favorite food group


Qualifications & Trainings

My Qualifications:

Professional Certified Coach, International Coach Federation (PCC)

Certified Professional Coach, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (CPC)

Certified Health Coach Wellbeing Dynamics, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (COR.E)

Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (ELI-MP)

Certified Gaslighting Specialist Level 2; Sarah Morales (C-DGS)

Association Of Partners Of Sex Addicts Specialists- Candidate (ASPATS-C)

Brainspotting Phase 1 & 2; Maryia Javid-Payne MSW, LICSW, LADC


Disclosure Guide Training for APSATS Coaches | Dr. Janice Caudill and Dan Drake

Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model | Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS)Betrayal Trauma and Addiction Recovery I  Alana Gordon Director, MFTI, CCPS, CSAT Candidate, Betrayal Trauma Coach, APSATS Trainee

Relationship Dynamic Assessment/ Kimberly Day LMHC, CCPS

Brainspotting Phase 1 Training I Maryia Javid-Payne MSW, LICSW, LADC

Brainspotting Phase 2 Training I Maryia Javid-Payne MSW, LICSW, LADC

Brainspotting Attachment Specialty Training I Jennifer DelaneyShock and Terror: Tracking (Down) Their Persistent Clinical Effects Shock and Terror: Tracking (Down) Their Persistent Clinical Effects Through Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR) I Frank Corrigan, MD

Certified Gaslighting Specialist Level 2; Sarah Morales 

Professional Memberships and Affiliations:

One Safe Space : I am proud to be affiliated with One Safe Space and founder Kimberly Day LMHC, CCPS, in supporting women who are navigating the complexities of relationships that present destructive behaviors in multiple domains in the relationship. It's an honor to contribute to the content as well as co-host of the podcast for members of this community. 

Choose Recovery Service: It's an honor to work alongside founders Alana Gordon MFTI, CCPS, CSAT-C and Luke Gordon ICF-PCC, CPC, APSATS-T in supporting women who are experiencing betrayal trauma and men who are hoping for sexual addiction recovery. Alana Gordon has been my mentor and supervisor since 2019.

Continuing My Education & Trainings:

Certified Divorce Specialist Training | National Association of Divorce Professionals Brainspotting Phase 3 & 4 I David GrandMember of Rocky Mountain Brainspotting Institute I  Regular training around brainspotting techniques to enhance my skill as a practitioner.